We go out on Memorial Day each year put flowers on the graves of our family. We place this scripture: "For the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive and remain will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air, and so we shall always be with the Lord." 1 Thessalonians 4: 16 & 17, on each grave along with some garden flowers. Mary gets to read the scripture and I arrange the flowers in the vase.