Tuesday, March 25, 2014

Millennials, who are they?

In the light of the News of World Vision Internation hiring and allowing same sex marraige people in their organization as a move to unify the Christian community, I write this.  I write it with tears and brokeness of heart for people who are being deceived by what World Vision is saying and other Christian organizations are saying.  If you want to read about World Vision's decision you can go to this article http://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/major-evangelical-charity-hire-married-gay-christians-n61021

Millennials, who are they?  Well Millennials is a term used for the generation of kids in America born around 1980 up to the mid 90's and have come to adulthood near the turn of the century.  They got their name from an noticeable event that happened in their lives in history.  My generation, the Baby Boomers, were those people born after WW2 when the troops came home, the economy boomed and everybody started having kids. What impact do the Millennials have in my life? They are a generation of kids that my heart breaks for.  The first time they came to my attention, several years ago, when I saw a slide show in the church we used to attend, that they were growing up and leaving the churches in America in large numbers.  They were saying that only 4% of them were professing Christianity.  This statistic saddened my heart and I began to read about the Millienial generation in nation polls and observing them through facebook and all around me.  Millennials are the children of divorce.  In 1970 the no fault divorce laws came to all the states in the US and the divorce rate zoomed to 50%.  If they themselves were not troubled with divorce in their family, they were friends with or in relationships with people who were.  This huge influx of kids from divorce made a big impact on our society and our country.  Much darker than what  a lot of people realized when these kids were little.  Now that they are adults they are resonating the things that happened to them when they were young.  They are like the full bloom of a crop that's roots began 40 years prior to their birth.  I hear older people say, "What happened? What are these kids thinking? Why are they doing what they are doing?"  Many say, "What has our society come to?"  Like these kids came out of nowhere and somehow morphed into the general practices of today.  Well I guess I should list some things that are the general practices of today in the young people,  41.7% of babies are now born to unwed mothers, 65% of the them are sympathetic to Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender lifestyles. They are big consumers of alcohol.  Alcoholism is worse than drug abuse in their generation.  They are tattooed, body pierced and vacating the evangelical churches.  The majority of them are gun shy of marriage and feel it necessary to live with their partner for a length of time to make sure that the relationship will last.  Of all the kids polled across the US in this age group the 2 things that came up on top for importance in their lives is, first be a good parent and second to have a marriage relationship that lasts.  Being a good parent and having marriage that lasts comes from the deep hurt and pain and betrayal they felt as children when their parents divorced or being raised from before they could remember without a dad or being tossed back and forth between homes.  These broken homes were hot beds for growing the feelings of homosexuality and promiscuity.  When a young boy feels abandoned by his dad at a very young age, he becomes confused and thinks that longing for affirmation from his dad is a sexual desire towards men.  Also when girls are abandoned by their dad or are abused by a step father fall into lesbianism as the pain that a man caused her makes her draw away and want to be loved by a woman.  These feelings come so young sometimes that they think they are born that way.  Not all turn to homosexuality, some become permiscious  and very sensual trying to fill the gaping emotional need in their lives.  They are looking for love but in all the wrong places.  Some people may say,  "These kids need the Lord" or "They need to go to church and get saved."  But a lot of this kids came from homes where their folks went to church or their grandparents went to church and many generations of family members went to church before them.  Sadly to say the divorce rates remained the same whether in church or not.  One of the biggest beefs the kids have, is against the Evangelicals.  They are more drawn to high church with simple church attendance, structure and liturgy but you leave and go on with your life as usual with a promise of heaven. A lot of them make up their own way, by being nice, doing a "Pay it Forward" thing, thinking God isn't upset with immoral practices as long as you are not hurting anyone, participating in benevolent things like giving out free food and giving the bum on the street some money.  They feel this is a more simple and honest approach to spirituality.  They echo the generation before them, their parents, the Baby Boomers, the Hippies.  I want to talk a little bit about the Hippies.  I skinned in as a Baby Boomer as I was born in 1960.  The Hippy Era happened when I was really young and didn't have much impact on me socially but I do remember some stuff.  I remember watching a TV show that showed a protest where a gal stood up and said, "Gals we need to burn our bras ... but take them off first!"  I can remember as a little child just cracking up over that.  I remember the peace signs and the Coca Cola song, "I'd love to teach the world to sing in perfect harmony." I remember seeing a young hippie mother walking down the street with her bare pregnant belly showing that had a really good tan, so I knew she must of gone around like that for a while.  The Hippie movement was like a flash in the pan but it left embers that never went out.  They were a disillusioned group of kids that were coming against the status quo.  They were angered by the senselessness of the Vietnam War.  They were disillusioned with the church, with materialism and the establishment.  They expressed it by not working, growing their hair long, loose morals called "free love".  They delved into drug use and eastern religions trying to find the truth.  Within a few years most of them went back to a "normal" life.  But, like I said the embers remained.  Some of it good and some of it bad.  People began to see the world in a different light.  They became less prejudice of other cultures, being more sympathetic to the poor, more acceptance of the blacks in our country, intermarrying with people of other races, more consciencous of hazards to the environment, ect.  The down side was the loss of sexual morality, permanence of marriage, they were more permissive with their children as far as discipline and not wanting too much accountability for themselves.  Persuing their own happiness, careers and lifestyles.  The Millennial generation grew up in this.  The breakdown in sexual morality meant more babies conceived apart from marriage and then the folks "having to get married", then being unsatisfied and busting up the relationship.  People married fast to please their folks and themselves, because of lack of self control.  Again these marriages not lasting or were dysfunctional and leaving kids in the wake of all of this.  These kids were not having to go off to a war, they were living in one.  One of things I have heard young Millennials say to the people in Evangelical churches is,  "You are pointing at the homosexuals as being bad but you sit in heterosexual sin, the church is full of it and you are not repenting of that. You know I didn't hear about anybody marching on Washington DC or signing petitions for their government leaders when the divorce laws changed! So just leave the Gays alone."  I have read that they are saying the church is full of hypocrocsy.  They have heard all their lives about the grace of God that covers our sin and all God sees is Jesus and why can't he do that for Gays too?  Many of the young kids think that Jesus would not of taken acception to homosexual behavior because that would not be loving and the church has been giving these huge love messages for as long as they can remember.  They are sending a message that things should be loosened up and give people a break.  They are disillutioned with the organized church, especially the Evangelical churches so they are leaving in great numbers when they reach adulthood.  The Baby Boomers in the Evangelical churches have unraveled the moral fiber by being accommodating to divorce and encouraging adulterous marriages and winking at living together but they are holding the tide at homosexuality.  The Millinnials are saying you need to unravel your moral fiber more.  Do we?  My husband and I feel that the moral fiber in the church needs to be reknit and not loosened up.  Not until you get at the root of this thing will you be able to reach this generation of disillusioned  kids with the power of the Holy Spirit.  A generation sympathetic and unrepentant to divorce, adultery and fornication raises a generation sympathetic and unrepentant to homosexuality.  The world makes this digression look like a progression of liberty but in reality it is a progression of bondage.  This bondage is the loss of the power of the Spirit of God and the work of the Holy Spirit which is conviction and repentance of sin, breaking down strongholds in peoples lives of physical illness, death, addictions and selfishness.  The church system in America has very little power from the Holy Spirit because of the compromise it supports.  There are salvations and some release from addictions and you hear every once in a while of healing of cancer or mental illness.  I really haven't ever seen a blind man receive his sight or a withered hand grown out or for that matter the dead raised.  Most of the people go to the doctors first for surgery, chemo therapy or medication.  Some think you are a pipe dreamer or weird if you don't run to the doctor first.  Some think that God heals through the doctors now.   It certainly is not like the story told in the Gospels or in the Book of Acts.

Now when John, while imprisoned, heard of the works of Christ, he sent word by his disciples and said to Him, “Are You the Expected One, or shall we look for someone else?” Jesus answered and said to them, “Go and report to John what you hear and see: the blind receive sight and the lame walk, the lepers are cleansed and the deaf hear, the dead are raised up, and the poor have the gospel preached to them. And blessed is he who does not take offense at Me.”  Matthew 11: 2-6

"Believe Me that I am in the Father and the Father is in Me; otherwise believe because of the works themselves.  Truly, truly, I say to you, he who believes in Me, the works that I do, he will do also; and greater works than these he will do; because I go to the Father. Whatever you
ask in My name, that will I do, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son.  If you ask Me anything in My name, I will do it  If you love Me, you will keep My commandments.John 14:11-15  


Monday, March 17, 2014

Hungarian Rice Pudding, Family and St. Patty's Day


My Husband made this wonderful dessert on Saturday.  I thought I would share the recipe.

Hungarian Rice Pudding Cake with Blueberry Sauce

Ingredients
Cake:
Butter, for the pan
Rice flour for dusting
2 1/2 cups cooked medium or long grain white rice at room temperature
2 1/2 cups milk
7 large eggs
1 cup sugar
1 heaping teaspoon fresh lemon zest or juice

Blue Berry Sauce:
1 lb blue berries or 12 ounces frozen blue berries
1/4 cup sugar
1/2 grape juice


Directions:

1. Preheat the oven to 375 degrees F.  Butter a 9 inch cake pan, then line the bottom with parchment paper and butter again.  Dust the pan lightly with rice flour.  Spread the cooked rice a long the bottom of the pan.

2. Warm the milk in a small sauce pan over low heat.

3. Beat the eggs, sugar, lemon zest and salt in a bowl with an electric mixer on medium until pale yellow and the eggs start to thicken , about 1/1/2 minutes, being careful not to over whip which will cause the cake to rise and deflate when baked.  Slowly stir in about half the warm milk into the eggs to temper, then add all the eggs to the saucepan and heat, stirring constantly, until it thickens slightly and almost coats the back of a spoon, 6 to 8 minutes.

4. Gently pour the custard over the rice and bake until the cake is just cooked through and wiggles only slightly in the very center, 40 to 50 minutes.

5. While the cake cooks, make the blue berry sauce.  Combine the blue berries, sugar and grape juice in a a saucepan over medium heat.  Cook, stirring until the fruit softens and the liquid is reduced and syrupy, about 10 minutes.  Cool and set aside.

6. Transfer the cake to a wire rack to cool for 30 minutes.  Invert onto a platter and lift the pan.  Remove the parchment paper.  Cut into wedges and serve with the blue berry sauce. 

Mary enjoying her Daddy's dessert 





Sunday we went to over to my sister's house for Mary to meet her Uncle and Aunt for the first time.  They live in Chicago and came for a short visit.  My sister's garden was in bloom with lovely bulbs.  It was such a gorgeous day!
Mary petting, Cookie.
We snapped a family shot.
 And a shot with her Aunt and Uncle.

She really enjoyed hearing Uncle Ben tell a few stories.  He is a great story teller and gets all the dialog and action that is so entertaining to kids (and big kids too)!

Finally I wanted to share an excellent link about who St. Patrick really was.  This is one of the best articles I have read about him and it was really encouraging to my faith.  I plan on saving the link in Mary's homeschool things.  So we can refer to it later.

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Birthday Joy!

I had a wonderful birthday!  On Sunday I had a birthday dinner with Rich's family.  His dad had just gotten out of the hospital and his sister was up visiting so we did a take in dinner from Olive Garden.  Rich bought me an ice cream cake.  It was all yummy!  On Monday Rich took me shopping with the birthday money I received.  I found a pair of pants and 3 family movies on sale.  When we got back to the van Rich surprised me with roses, a card and balloon.  Then I met my dear friend, Bonnie, for lunch.  We share the same birthday.  She gave me a lovely bouquet of daffodils from her yard and a beautiful set of plastic rainbow colored glasses.  I am so thrilled they are plastic because Mary can use them too!  I received many lovely cards, phone calls and facebook greetings from friends and family.  I am feeling so blessed.
 
 
 





Friday, March 7, 2014

Valentine's Day Slide Show

I am a bit late getting this up but I did a slide show of our Valentine's day pics.  As usual we had a lot of heart shaped foods and Mary had fun making her daddy goodies.  It was great that Rich could take them to work and share there as we could not get away with all those cupcakes and brownies.  lol





Here is the link to the video: http://www.onetruemedia.com/shared?p=12bc198726898e9a1ded63a&skin_id=1604&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url

Thursday, March 6, 2014

Butte Creek Mill

We went to Butte Creek Mill last week and had so much fun.  We made it like a school field trip for Mary.  She got to see how the mill works with turbines that are run by the power of the stream and how the grain is made into flour with the grinding stone (that is run by the turbines).  Along with all that there was lots of interesting old farm tools.  Mary was fascinated by an old wringer wash machine and a wooden oxen yolk.  She had been hearing about one that was in Little Framer Boy that we have been reading.  Then we went into the country store that sells all the wonderful flour that they make there.  We bought a sack of whole wheat white flour.  It is a whole wheat that is made from a white wheat kernel.  We also got some amazing fig bars and a San Francisco bread yeast to make the starter that they use down there that has been around since the 1800's.  They make many wonderful things and put together gift boxes that a baker would love.  We definitely will be going back to get their flour.  It is fresh with no preservatives added.  I have made several loaves with it so far and it tastes delicious!  Here is a slide show I put together.
 
 
Here is the link to the video:  http://www.onetruemedia.com/shared?p=12bf102952c56a7256fc54b&skin_id=601&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url

Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Remembering Mom

A couple of days ago on the 24th was the 26th anniversary of my sweet mom going to heaven.  Rich, Mary and I went out to her grave and placed some flowers there.  I always try to get roses because that was my mom's favorite.  I do it just to remember mom and honor her as I know she is with the Lord in heaven.  My sister, Denise, shared the most beautiful thing that my mom wrote, on her facebook page to honor mom.  I wanted to share it with you.  It was written on a piece of paper without a date on it.  It speaks so much of my mother's heart.
 
" Jesus, My Friend"
"When my heart is heavy and the tears are falling,
I look up to Jesus and know he understands.
And my heart fills to running over
when I think how he understands.
I can see him on his heavenly throne,
longing to come and comfort me
like he could have when he was here on earth.
But Lo! he said that 'I will not leave thee, nor forsake thee'.
So I say, in faith, believing: ' Jesus, I know you understand,
and I give myself to thee.'
All other friends may turn their backs on me,
but Jesus will always love me, no matter what may come.
I now consecrate this body and life to this wonderful friend.
Take it and use it like it was your own body.
All I desire is to be yours, dear blessed Jesus.
May this always be my prayer."
 
 
 
Here is a picture of mom with her favorite flowers and then a shot of the flowers we put out on Monday.
 

 

Wednesday, February 19, 2014

Nutcracker Ballet

I made a slide show of a collection of lovely still shots taken of the Nutcracker Ballet that Mary performed in on December 21 and 22.  I was able to also include a couple of video clips.  One was of my most favorite dance of the angels and the entrance of the snow fairy queen.  I just love the music to this dance!  I also included Mary's dance.  She was one of the little bon bons that came out from under Mrs. Ginger's dress.  She is one of the tallest ones with a blue/purple cape, an orange neck ruffle and she uses a red scarf to twirl with in part of the dance.  I hope you enjoy the jump back to the holidays and are able to capture some of the magic and fun of this beautiful ballet.
 
Here is the link to the video:  http://www.onetruemedia.com/shared?p=12b566dddce7a16cbb2656a&skin_id=601&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url
 

Sunday, February 16, 2014

Piano Fun

It was so cute the other night after Mary had her first piano lesson, she sat down and played her songs without me asking her to while I was washing the dishes. So I went in and video taped her. She was making up her own little tunes and just having fun. It was so special to see her enjoy the piano and having fun with it.

Here is the link to the video: http://www.onetruemedia.com/shared?p=12b784adc1a0de307498878&skin_id=1603&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url

 

Friday, February 7, 2014

From the Heart

Heart shaped food is so fun!  Mary and Rich get such a kick out of it, as the days to Valentine's approach I love to make them heart shaped food.  The other morning I made banana sourdough heart shaped pancakes. 

Mary and I were reading in this book tonight. We were on the chapter where the Ingalls family have guests for Christmas dinner and we came across this paragraph...
 
"Mrs. Boast was great fun. She was interested in everything and eager to learn how Ma managed so well. When you haven't milk enough to have sour milk, however do you make such delicious biscuits, Laura? It was fun to show her. Laura measured out the cups of sour dough, put in the soda and salt and flour and rolled out the biscuits on the board. "But how do you make the sour dough?" Mrs. Boast asked. "You start it," said Ma, "by putting some flour and warm water in a jar and letting it stand till it sours." "Then when you use it, always leave a little," said Laura. "And pour in the scraps of biscuit dough, like this, and more warm water. Laura put in the warm water and covered it. She put the clean cloth and the plate on the jar and just set it in a warm place. She set it in its place on the shelf by the stove and it's always ready to use, whenever you want it."

After we read that Mary's eye's lit up and said, "That's what we do!" It was so cool to read a real life story that happened back in the 1800's and see them do what we do.


 
He is loved just a little bit. Ha!
 
 
Mary is having so much fun getting Valentines in the mail.  Her Aunt Linda sent her this one.
 
 
She is having a lot of fun making Valentines this year.  She is such a little love bug.
 

Monday, February 3, 2014

Valentine's Day is Coming

Well with Valentine's Day just around the corner, someone is getting excited.  I made eggs in a nest with heart shaped toast for breakfast and we decorated her school room bulletin board.  Saving old Mylar balloons came in handy.




Mary has been working on some writing projects.  She will write one or two pages and then she draws a picture to go with her writing project.


 
I finally got my newest blog book printed up.  I had started out doing it each year but I let it go for 3 years.  So, I had a huge editing project on my hand.  I started editing last fall and I finished it a couple of weeks ago.  I was pleased how it turned out.  I make it for Mary so she will see what we did when she was little and she can read the stories of our life.
 
 
The cover.  I took this of Mary when she was about 3 1/2.
 
 
Here are a few shots of the pages inside.